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Buntis daw ako? Ilang months na kaya? At bakit hindi ko alam ‘to?

The answer to the question kung buntis ako is NO, I’m not Yet pregnant. Thank you to my trustworthy friends who want to confirm first before believing the gossip that we married earlier than planned because I was pregnant. I may not have told everyone I know the reason why we moved the wedding date, was to have my father-in-law (who is battling lung cancer right now) attend the wedding the best time he can. It’s a pity that someone just don’t have that level of understanding. It’s so sad yet it’s true that insecurities can make someone judgmental, narrow minded and a liar. How low can you go, just to pry on other people’s lives like your life is so boring enough you wouldn’t dare care about it? Obviously, someone wants to take advantage of the whole scenario, mislead people, just as always, but always ending up as a loser, too busy worrying about other people, feeling alone, got nothing better to do and simply living under false pretenses.

So to all my friends and to those concern, when I do get pregnant, believe it when you hear it from me and not some potty-mouth (her nickname). I do not use any spokesperson, though some have put themselves in that position.

- ALONA CO MALACAS

Bad news… My Dad is now having problems with the latest drug his doctor gave him. He was actually fine in the last 2-3 weeks or so but now, he was ordered to not take it anymore. He’s having some kind of allergic reactions from the drug and currently under no medications. He’s going to see the doctor sometime next week, so hopefully he’d get to take some kind of alternatives…

My bro-in-law talked to me earlier while driving to work. He mentioned to me that Dad could leave us in a month, in a few months or maybe even in weeks. I listened to him, but for some reason I do not believe him. I don’t know, maybe I’m in some kind of denial… hmmm, I really don’t know… I hope I’m right though… I won’t be able to accept it yet…

Our pictures from our wedding are still cooking. We have asked our friend Faye to become the photographer for that day and she has mentioned that she was supposed to make an album. We didn’t ask her to do all that but wow, very nice I should say! We also made an appointment to Keepsake to get our pictures done just right after the restaurant reception. Well, hopefully I get to post more pictures in the future but everybody is kind of busy right now. In the meantime, check out some of the pics taken using my camera.

Brief update: 02-26-08

All I needed to say on that day: although it wasn’t complete, it was still one of the happiest days of me and alou’s lives…

and thanks to all the people who shared the moment with us…

we love u all!